CAPTURE AND CELEBRATE LIFE IN EVERY MOMENT POSSIBLE.
Author: rubyasoy
Ruby is a true-blooded media practitioner and a journalist by profession.
She served her early years as a lifestyle writer for a leading magazine and a couple of corporate engagements to which she learned the ropes of editorial work – and dealing with almost the brightest personalities and celebrities in tinsel town.
She had a very productive stint at the now-defunct AMPR Publicity and Communications, Inc. It was also during this period that she honed her skills in Marketing when she had the opportunity to serve as Committee Member at the prestigious Philippine Marketing Association.
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Being on a farm is good for your health. It fosters practicality, creativity, and bond among family members.
We live in unusual times. The coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) pandemic has impacted us in many ways. Our way of life has been disrupted. We are now embracing and living a “new normal” and adhering to quarantine protocols.
Having a life where things slow down just a bit means avoiding too much stress from urban living. Being on a farm is good for your health. It fosters practicality, creativity, and bond among family members.
In the midst of a crisis, you can rely on fresh produce from the farm such as veggies, fruits, and other crops. You know where your food is coming from and what goes into it. There’s also something satisfying in growing one’s own food.
My family at Lebajo ArtFarm: Wearing masks to keep ourselves protected from the virus.
Nature
One of the best parts of farm life is being in nature. The scenery is beautiful and peaceful. The air is a lot cleaner and cooler, too. You feel totally relaxed. The atmosphere is less suffocating. You can look forward to a picturesque sunrise and vibrant sunset early on, and be fascinated with the chirping of the birds around you.
Farm to table
During our stay at the farm, we harvested sweet mangoes and Bangkok santol, fresh vegetables such as ampalaya, okra, patola, papaya, and string beans. For organic string beans, we made an easy to prepare sauteed beans mixed with vegetarian meat for a hearty meal.
Organic string beans
Yummy sauteed beans!
According to an online source, green beans are a healthy addition to almost any eating plan because they are a low-calorie, low-fat source of energy. Beans are also nutrient-dense since they provide lots of beneficial vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants without many calories.
The farm-to-table scheme is beneficial for sustenance and quality of life.
Gardening
Gardening is good for our mental health and overall well-being, especially in this time of uncertainty. It’s always enjoyable and fulfilling to cultivate the plants either in the morning or afternoon. When you see it blooms and bears fruits, you feel the satisfaction from nurturing the floras.
A report in the Mental Health Journal cited “gardening as being able to reduce stress and improve mood, with a reduction in symptoms of depression and anxiety.”
Farmgirl: Harvesting the crops
Aside from gardening, you can do a lot of activities that stimulate sound body and mind, such as caring for the pets, harvesting the crops, biking, jogging, cooking, painting, meditation, yoga, badminton, basketball, reading a good book in a hammock, and a lot more.
Spending the quarantine period at the farm is a blissful and valuable experience after all.
(The Lebajo ArtFarm is a sprawling family farm cum studio gallery located in Alfonso, Cavite)
Feel the tropical vibes at Batis Aramin amidst the picturesque Mount Banahaw backdrop.
Looking for a summer destination that is perfect for families and friends? Don’t look any further. Plan your summer holiday at Batis Aramin just a stone’s throw away from Kamay ni Hesus Healing Church and Via Dolorosa Grotto in Lucban, Quezon.
Batis Aramin is a nature park for families, friends, and companies looking for a place for their relaxation, swimming, and other leisure and team-building activities. It is a vast resort with beautiful and picturesque backgrounds that you will surely love. Not to mention Mount Banahaw as its main milieu.
With the ongoing pandemic, the establishment has complied with the Safety & Health Protocol-Guidelines of the DOT, DTI, and local IATF that ensure the safety of their tourists and the host community as well.
As part of health protocols, they require the signing of a health declaration form upon check-in, body temperature check upon entering, contactless “Mabuhay Gesture,” installation of barriers and markers in check-in counters promoting physical distancing, and availability of holding area for guests showing symptoms.
When you have the whole pool to yourself. Personal photoSunflower blooms at the resort. Courtesy of Batis Aramin FB Page
Moreover, all rooms are cleaned and sanitized with disinfectant and sanitizing spray. Beds are at least one meter apart. There is also thorough sanitation of frequently touched surfaces, limited seating capacity per table, and availability of emergency hotline numbers.
Since last year, Batis Aramin has been granted the Certificate of Authority to Operate by the Department of Tourism.
Room with a relaxing view. Courtesy of Batis Aramin FB Page
The resort has an ongoing promo for all Quezonians and Lucbanin. They get a 20% discount on entrance fees and 10% on room accommodation until April 30, 2021. Just present any ID as proof of residency and Health Certificate.
From festivals, picturesque and ecotourism sites, and enjoyable activities, there’s definitely a Bohol destination for everyone. It also offers other attractions that families, groups, and even solo travelers can enjoy.
With the revival of local tourism, more people have a chance to see the magnificent places and experience fun-filled activities in Bohol. But before planning a trip to Bohol, visitors are requested to comply with safety protocols in the interest of everyone’s health and well-being. It is recommended that travelers check with the LGU of their planned destination for updates on the destination’s rules and protocols.
“We look forward to more people traveling to Bohol to see and experience the beauty and wonders of the province,” Department of Tourism (DOT) Secretary Bernadette Romulo-Puyat said during the launch of Balik sa Bohol online sale recently.
“We, at the DOT, along with provincial and local leaders in Bohol, are committed to protecting the health and safety of locals and tourists alike. Regaining the trust and confidence of Filipinos to travel again is essential to the revival of the tourism industry,” she further explained.
Home to many Ubi farmers
One of the attractions in Bohol is the yearly “Ubi Festival,” which has been celebrated since the year 2000, is proof of the Boholanos’ love for Ubi or purple yam.
The root crop was revered as a “savior crop” as its discovery led to the alleviation of hunger in the province during pre-Hispanic times. Now, it has become a staple food for Boholanos because of its taste, long shelf-life, and the many food varieties that can be made from it.
Ubi festival. Photo from the Office of the Provincial Agriculturist Bohol.
As the largest producer of ubi in the country, Bohol is home to many ubi farmers who turn to the root crop for their livelihood. The recent festival theme revolved on “Pagpananum ug Ubi Napuslan, Kagutom Na Dala Sa Covid19 Nabatukan,” which aimed to celebrate the root crop that has become an agro-historical-geographical-religious symbol for the province and highlight the impact and contributions of ubi farmers.
A variety of Ubi products like ube jams and ube-based bibingka, ice cream, and bread were showcased at the festival.
Scenic views and ecotourism sites
From festivals, picturesque and ecotourism sites, and enjoyable activities, there’s definitely a Bohol destination for everyone. While it is famous for the Chocolate Hills, Bohol also offers other attractions that families, groups, and even solo travelers can enjoy.
Chocolate Hills
When one speaks of Bohol, the Chocolate Hills cannot be left out. These 1,776 individual hills spread across six towns have attracted tourists from many generations for their uniqueness and vastness.
Who wouldn’t be awestruck to see this amazing natural wonder before your very eyes? Never miss a good chance to visit the Chocolate Hills Complex located in the town of Carmen Bohol.
Chocolate Hills. Photo courtesy of Paul Gotiong.
There is only a viewing deck from where you can enjoy the extraordinary landscape. Bear in mind that the viewing deck is accessible only by stairs and temperatures can be very warm from time to time. Generally, visits to the hills are brief ones as there is no other activity besides viewing them.
Interestingly, they are covered in green grass that turns brown during the dry season, for this reason, that it was called for that name. The Chocolate Hills are the Philippines ’ third National Geological Monument. It was also submitted to be a UNESCO World Heritage.
Tarsier Sanctuary
The Philippine Tarsier Sanctuary, a place dedicated to saving the lives of endangered tarsiers, is also open for those who want to learn more about these small nocturnal primates.
Courtesy: Cecille Gaillard FB
Loboc River
Experience nature-filled relaxation and tranquillity at Loboc River, one of the popular destinations in Bohol. Tourists can embark on board a floating restaurant and enjoy the Loboc River cruise with a delectable buffet meal.
Loboc River cruise / personal photo
Loboc town is located approximately 24 kilometers from Tagbilaran City. With this unique encounter, it will keep you coming back for more to remind us of how wonderful it is to see and discover the amazing places of Bohol.
Dragon Fruit Farm
While in Bohol, never miss a chance to visit and harvest dragon fruits at the Fascination Farm located at Sitio Palayan, Tipolo Ubay, Bohol.
Delicious Dragon fruits. Photo courtesy of the Fascination Farm.
This vast dragon fruit plantation welcomes visitors and tourists to take part in the experience of harvesting on their own, ripe, sweet, juicy, and delicious dragon fruits. For more information, visit https://www.facebook.com/yummydragons.
Action-packed activities
Bohol also has something for adrenaline junkies. If you prefer seeing the Chocolate Hills up close, ATV rentals are available in the Carmen area.
ATV-Bohol. Photo courtesy of Nataniel Luperte.
Those who want more action-packed activities can head to the Loboc Ecotourism Adventure Park for the zip line and cable car rides. If you prefer water activities, you can also opt for stand-up paddleboarding tours or experience a water bike adventure.
White-sand beaches
Bohol is also known for its white-sand beaches and clear waters. The Alona Beach is a stunning 1.5km stretch of white-sand beach famous for being a must-visit spot for those who love snorkeling, scuba diving, or even those who just like to relax and watch the sunset.
Travelers can also island-hop to Balicasag and Virgin islands to explore Bohol’s marine life. If you’re lucky, you might even get a glimpse of dolphins in the area.
Momo Beach
Momo Beach House is an “eco-chic boutique resort” nestled on the shores of Panglao Island, Bohol. It is situated nearby the famous Alona Beach and is blessed with white sand and cool crystal blue waters.
Momo Beach is an “eco-chic boutique resort” / personal photo.
Named after the indigenous people of Bohol, Eskaya is an exclusive boutique hotel that prides itself on thoughtful service and personalized experiences for guests. Recently, it was featured in destinationdeluxe.com as one of the amazing wellness resorts in the country.
Eskaya Beach Resort and Spa: Modern luxury and exclusivity. Photo courtesy of Eskaya Beach Resort & Spa
The resort offers 5-star world-class modern luxury accommodation coupled with warm Filipino hospitality. Guests can marvel at the sprawling greenery and scenic vistas spread out across the 15 hectares property, making it a great escape. It now comprises 24 thatched-roof villas, individually designed in contemporary, Filipino style.
Tourism comprises 70% of the livelihood in Bohol, so there is no wonder that several hotels and resorts are available in the area. Whether you choose accommodations in the municipality of Panglao or Dauis, these hotels are committed to providing top-notch service and hospitality, especially during these times.
Temperature checks, QR code scanning, plated meals and rearranged eating areas are just some of the adjustments made by accommodations to ensure that travelers are assured of a safe environment during their stay.
Hassle-free travel
Do-it-yourself travels are currently not allowed in Bohol. This means that everything you plan to do while on the island should be pre-booked–from accommodations and transportation to tour arrangements.
This makes sightseeing around the island hassle-free. This also makes it easier for the provincial government to implement systems to curb the virus’s spread while ensuring that tourists get to fully enjoy the island’s beauty.
Before planning a visit to Bohol, travelers must have a negative RT-PCR test taken 72 hours before their arrival, pre-booked accommodations at a DOT/LGU-accredited establishment, travel itinerary, and registration in the Province of Bohol website at tourism.bohol.gov.ph for the issuance of personal QR codes that will serve as electronic IDs.
Tourists coming from Metro Manila are encouraged to apply for the subsidized RT-PCR test at the UP-Philippine General or Philippine Children’s Medical Center for as low as PHP900 and PHP750, respectively. To avail of the 50% discount from either of the two medical institutions, visit the Tourism Promotions Board website at www.tpb.gov.ph/rtpcrphtravel.
As of February 2, 2021, Bohol allows the use of saliva RT-PCR tests in place of nasal and throat swabs.
For up-to-date information on open destinations and the safety protocols and requirements needed for each location, you may visit www.philippines.travel/safetrip or download the Travel Philippines app at app.philippines.travel or the Google Playstore.
“Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted in the earth.” – Psalm 46:10
Twenty years ago, I received a birthday present from an editor friend that I treasure up to this day. It was a small book titled “Women on the Journey: Devotions for Women,” which contains a magnificent compilation of rich experiences candidly shared by women, to women; stories about their real-life situations – struggles, trials, and triumphs – and life lessons that truly touch and instill.
Their stories are a form of blessings from which we can draw valuable insights to help us in our own journey.
This Holy Week, while having my quiet moment at home, I inadvertently open this tiny book and reflected on the topic “Listening in the Stillness.” It was a relief to calm myself down from shock after hearing the passing of a dear friend on a Good Friday.
Here is an excerpt from the book:
“Have you ever reached a point when you felt so tired you were ready to give up on life? Have you ever felt that you were a victim of a vicious cycle of despair and frustration? Are you going around in circles, not knowing where you are headed?
In Psalm 46:10, God invites us to stop for a while. God invites us to let go of our struggles and remain in His presence. He wants us to know Him and His love in the nakedness of our souls.
‘Our awareness of God is a syntax of the silence in which our souls mingle with the Divine, in which the ineffable in us commune with the ineffable beyond us.
It is the afterglow of years in which soul and sky are silent together, the outgrowth of accumulated certainty of the abundant, never-ending presence of the Divine.
All we have to do is to let the insight be and listen to the soul’s certainty of its being a parenthesis in the immense script of God’s eternal speech.’” (Heschel, A.J).
Do not let the noise of this world drown out the voice of God.”
Featuring seven churches in Laguna, Tagaytay, and Batangas as part of sacred vows that Filipino Catholics make during Holy Week.
Every year, during Holy Thursday and Good Friday, it has been part of our panata (sacred vows) to make a Visita Iglesia or visiting at least seven different churches as a reference to the Seven Last Words of Jesus. As Catholics, we firmly believe that our prayers will be granted after the stations are completed.
However, since we are still in the midst of the pandemic and for safety, we may not fulfill physically the tradition, but still keeping it alive through virtual and online masses by various churches.
At home, we can still say our prayers or say the Rosary, watch, and listen to the Holy masses through live streaming.
John Bosco Parish & Center for Young Workers, Sta Rosa City, Laguna
St. John Bosco Parish & Center for Young Workers is a Roman Catholic Parish run by the Salesians of Don Bosco to minister to the communities and workers in the Laguna Technopark.
Location: Laguna Blvd. Laguna Technopark, City of Sta. Rosa, Laguna.
Courtesy: San Pedro Apostol Parish FBCourtesy: San Pedro Apostol Parish FB
Santo Niño De Cebu Parish, Binan, Laguna
Compared to other churches in the province it is relatively new but definitely a sight to be admired. Built by Augustinian friars in 1984, the present church underwent reconstruction in 2002.
San Isidro Labrador Parish (Filipino: Parokya ni San Isidro Labrador), commonly known as Biñan Church, is the oldest Roman Catholic church in Biñan, Laguna under the Roman Catholic Diocese of San Pablo.
Location: Plaza Rizal, Barangay Poblacion, Binan City.
San Isidro Labrador Parish Binan. Courtesy: silpbinanchurch FB
Pink Sisters Chapel and Convent, Tagaytay
The Pink Sisters Chapel in Tagaytay is one of the most well-known places of worship and pilgrimage in Tagaytay. The church situates tranquility within the verdant surroundings of trees and multi-hued plants. After offering your prayers, you can walk around the garden and immerse further in deep reflection.
Location: Holy Spirit Dr., Maitim 2nd East, Tagaytay City
Pink Sister Chapel. Courtesy: Melissa Tutor FB
Minor Basilica de San Martin de Tours, Taal
It is enormous in appearance and elevated by its hilltop position that it’s an almost permeating sight in the town center.
The church has a rich history that can be traced back to the late 16th century when it was still in San Nicolas. The 19th-century devastation of Taal Volcano led to it being rebuilt on its recent structure.
The Chapel of Caleruega is a Retreat Center administered by Fathers and Brothers of the Dominican Province of the Philippines. It is home amidst the beauty of nature, and serenity for contemplation.
“The generous soul will be made rich, and he who waters will also be watered himself.” – Proverbs 11:25
Proverbs 11 teaches that a person who gives to others will gain even more. Verse 25 makes another point: “Generosity will be rewarded. Give a cup of water, and you will receive a cup of water in return.”
This reminds me of Caritas Manila (CM) and its various services intended for the marginalized sector of Philippine society. CM is the leading social arm of the Archdiocese of Manila and the integrator of the Church social services and development in Metro Manila.
Its programs and services are directed toward the total human development of destitute people and the promotion of social justice in the light of the Catholic Church’s social teachings.
CM views development as empowering the poor, giving priority to those no one else serves. It is concerned with addressing the present situation of disadvantaged groups such as the urban poor, women, and children.
At the same time, CM is also involved with national, even global issues such as the environment. The measure of its performance lies in its contribution to the improvement of the quality of life of the poor people in society.
One observation is that Filipinos are more generous with their assistance to Caritas today than they were 10 years ago. “There’s really a remarkable improvement,” according to my source, a former executive director of CM, for this interview some years back. “Generally, Filipinos are kind.” At present, the executive director of CM is Fr. Anton C.T. Pascual.
The present executive director of Caritas Manila, Fr. Anton C.T. Pascual with Miss Universe-Philippines, Rabiya Mateo. Courtesy @OfficialCaritasManila
Caritas Manila, then known as Catholic Charities was founded by the late Archbishop of Manila, Rufino Cardinal Santos in October 1953. He saw it as a “social welfare program with the purpose of uplifting the spirit and soul of these unfortunate members of our community . . . to assist them in all their needs . . . to bring the assistance and help of God in their miseries and distress.”
CM now focuses on socio-development activities that would wholistically draw out the poor’s capabilities and responsibilities. This stemmed from the belief that “self-reliance cannot be achieved through social services alone.”
Since then it has shifted to community building, to make the poor people self-reliant. They only dole-out in extreme emergencies, for example to those victimized by fires, floods, and other calamities. They always emphasize self-reliance, they help them find a job or train them to develop their skills.
Despite the passing of time, Caritas remains relevant. “I think we will still be here,” said my source. “But ideally we should fade away because it would mean then that the people are all economically, morally well-off. That’s our ultimate goal.”
Its accomplishment in helping people towards self-reliance has been an encouragement to continue CM’s commitment to helping build lives again. Above all, Caritas has uplifted our poor countrymen to their fullest dignity as God’s children.
Lenten Season Alay Kapwa 2021 campaign
This campaign challenges one to abstain from meals or habits in exchange for giving to the poor. From whatever you choose to give up Lenten season, you may save P40 a day. A total of Php 1,600 can be raised in 40 days, which you may donate to their feeding and nutrition campaign addressing hunger and malnutrition resulting from the pandemic and typhoons.
Caritas hopes that you accept this act of almsgiving by supporting the Alay Kapwa campaign and being the face of Christ’s love to those most in need in these trying times. You may share your blessings through their official bank accounts and online donation portals.
Newscasters have to be very well-versed on almost anything. “You just have to constantly prepare yourself. The more experiences you have along the way, the better for you in the long run,” shares Vicky.
After more than 25 years in the broadcasting industry, broadcast journalist Vicky Morales is very much comfortable with herself. She feels no pressure to equate the achievements of others with her or to even surpass their achievements.
“I’m happy the way I am now,” relates Vicky from a previous exclusive interview. She’s now a regular anchor for 24 Oras along with Mel Tiangco and Mike Enriquez. She’s also hosting Wish Ko Lang and Good News. She’s one of the pillars of GMA News and Public Affairs.
Vicky first took up BS Management at the Ateneo de Manila University then shifted to Communication in her second year. A consistent dean’s lister, she graduated in 1990 with First Honors and was nominated by the Ateneo to the 1990 RFM – Rotary Search for the Ten Outstanding Students of the Philippines.
Vicky’s start in broadcasting wasn’t smooth. Her professor gave her a bright recommendation for a job with ABS-CBN. She was assigned as a segment reporter but her stint didn’t last very long. She was singled out among more than 500 applicants for a newscasting job in GMA Headline News but she was taken off after three to four months.
Tina Monzon-Palma, at that time head of GMA’s news section, told her frankly that she didn’t really appear well-versed with the news and looked very nervous. Vicky remembered crying when she lost her first newscasting post. But she always looked back to it as a point of the challenge.
Vicky, of course, got another chance. Dong Puno took her on his then daily morning talk show called Business Today (re-launched into Good Morning Asia in 1997). Vicky co-hosted, produced reports, and wrote news for this show.
In time she had honed her skills enough to make a comeback on GMA Network News, then co-hosted with Mike Enriquez. She also produced reports for Saksi. In 1997, she was sent for a month-long training program on Television News Production at New York University in the USA.
Finally, Vicky has gained self-confidence.
25 years and counting
Vicky feels she’s being challenged every day. According to her, every day presents new challenges. In a way, there’s so much element of surprise in the business.
“You wake up each morning not knowing what will actually happen, what assignment you can actually be given,” she quips. “You just have to constantly prepare yourself. The more experiences you have along the way, the better for you in the long run.”
Throwback photos of Vicky /personal file
Every day, Vicky prepares herself before facing the camera. “It is really the long-term preparation of myself. I go through my scripts then I make my own corrections because I want it to be based on my speaking style,” she says.
Vicky’s antidote to her early nervousness was to continuously arm herself with broad information. This means newscasters have to be very well-versed on almost anything.
On integrity and public trust
Vicky shares her pieces of advice for aspiring broadcasters. She relates that aside from proper skills, integrity is very important because news is based heavily on public trust.
“I think you should never compromise this trust. Take good care of that trust by verifying the news, you should not be paid to say what you say,” she points out.
She underscores as well the importance of attitude – aggressiveness, curiosity, energy, persistence, and drive. Teamwork is also crucial.
“You have to get along well with people. The news is all about a lot of people working together to deliver a good product. And last but not least is knowledge of current events. It’s actually a habit that you should acquire. Especially in an ambush interview, you have to think on your toes.”
One important lesson she learned from the trade is that there are always “two or more sides in the story.”
She explains: “No matter how believable one person can sound, people should be given the benefit of the doubt. It’s about fairness and objectivity. For me, I try to get both sides of the story as much as possible. Sometimes, we have our own personal biases, but we have to put that aside.”
She credits her parents with the value of hard work and money even though they are quite well-off. She’s blessed with blissful family life. Vicky is married to Alfonso Reyno III, a lawyer, and mother to twins Leon Alfonso and Filippo Luis, and daughter Daniela.
The broadcast business, she points out, doesn’t really remunerate very well, “But if you work hard enough then it could be rewarding in other terms,” she concludes.
(Based on the article published in the old Mirror Weekly magazine by the same author)
Let’s hear it from these successful women who have made a difference in their own unique ways.
In the course of my work interviewing various personalities, I have come across varying ideas and views about issues – from personal, complex to the most trivial – but what strikes me the most is when those thoughts emanate straight from the heart. It feels genuine and sincere. It makes you think, that we are all the same in the eyes of God – you stumble, recover, and start again, and come out a better person. There is always resilience in the face of trials and adversity.
Here are some of the meaningful quotes I have gathered from my previous interviews with these accomplished women:
Courtesy Dayanara Torres FB Page
“How I rose from scratch makes me a real model for the youth. I will never break that image.”
– Former Miss Universe Dayanara Torres, when she was chosen as one of the “Most Distinguished Women” in Puerto Rico at the age of 23. She shared that she was probably selected because she made well in spite of her very humble background.
Courtesy online source
“Mothers are often placed in a dilemma prioritizing between career and family. But for me, my family is always first.”
-Zsa-Zsa Padilla, actress, singer, mom, digital influencer, during the time when she was reviving her showbiz career
Courtesy reallysharoncuneta IG
“After that trying situation, I’ve learned to appreciate life more. It has strengthened my faith. I feel so blessed and whatever will happen to me, I’ll be fine because I’ve been given so much already.”
-Megastar Sharon Cuneta, on her thoughts, when she had her second miscarriage
Courtesy QueenStar Vilma Santos FB page
“I believe in a woman’s right to express herself and to live her life the way she wants to, without losing her sense of morality. I’ll probably despise myself if I take on any man I meet in the streets. Let’s not limit the definition of morality. The most important thing is to have respect for yourself.”
– Star for All Seasons and Cong. Vilma Santos-Recto on how she sees herself in a movie role “Bata, Bata . . . Paano Ka Ginawa?”
Courtesy Bianca Araneta-Elizalde FB Page
“Always keep your values and be well-grounded. When you get into it, you must be mentally, physically, and emotionally stable. You must know what you want because you can fall into so many traps. Make sure to carry the real person in you.”
– Bianca Araneta-Elizalde on her advice to youngsters who are contemplating a career in modeling and hosting
Katherine Annwen De Guzman. Courtesy www.geocities.ws
“It should be considered so important. Where’s the system going if people aren’t educated? How can we vote for a good president if we don’t have educated people?”
– Katherine Annwen De Guzman, former Bb. Pilipinas-World on her notion that education must come first
Janelle Bautista. Courtesy spot.ph
“My family. And I would dedicate my life to preserving that. It’s something I hold in my heart. My mission is to help build a foundation for a good family because I believe the family is a source of strength for all of us. So that children will have good idols, and when they have their own families they will also be able to pass on the strong family values they learned from their own parents.”
-Janelle Bautista, former Bb. Pilipinas-Universe on what she considers as the most beautiful thing in this world, and what would she do to preserve it
Individually, these inspiring women have made a difference in their own unique ways. Happy International Women’s Month!
In the face of a career-high, Ai-Ai de las Alas struggled as sole breadwinner and a single parent to her three children. Finally, she now feels complete and enjoying all aspects of her life – career, marriage, and motherhood.
Comedy Queen and Comedy Concert Queen Ai-Ai de las Alas’s business is to make people happy. But what can make her truly joyful is to be surrounded by the most important persons in her life – her children, a husband she can share her life with, and a happy home.
She was given another crack at marriage with a younger husband, Gerald Sibayan, whom, she said came at the right time. “Deep inside I know I’m a good wife, a good mother, and a good person.” The couple tied the knot in December 2017.
Ai-Ai and Gerald – happy together. Courtesy: filipinotimes.net
Aside from Gerald, her source of joy right now are her three children: Sancho Vito, Shaun Nicolo, and Sophia Andrea – her love children with estranged husband, singer Miguel Vera.
Her past experience of love has changed her a lot as a person. “Hindi na ako mapusok (I’m no longer aggressive when it comes to the affairs of the heart),” she admitted. “Noon kasi basta mahal ko hindi na ako nag-iisip (Because then, as long as I love you, I don’t think anymore).”
As a mom, she’s both strict and a spoiler. “Kasi ‘yong hindi ko naibibigay na oras, kung ano na lang ang gusto nilang hingin minsan ibinibigay ko na lang din,” (Because I don’t always have time for them, I just give what they want sometimes) she shared. “But I always remind them that we’re not rich. And if ever I can’t give them what they want, it doesn’t mean that I don’t love them. Ayaw ko lang na masanay sila sa pera.” (I just don’t want them to get used to money.)
Good at loving someone
Being a celebrity she still disdains the lack of privacy that goes with her job. “Minsan depende sa approach kasi may mga taong salbahe talaga,” (Sometimes it depends on the approach because there are really bad people.) she said.
She admitted that she’s a crybaby in real life. “Sometimes people have this notion that what you’re doing onscreen is the same thing what you’re doing in real life,” she explained. “I want them to know that I have also my own private life. Hindi lang nila alam na kaunting bagay lang iniiyakan ko na.” (They just don’t know that I’m crying over a few things.)
She said she’s a good cook and also good at loving someone. “My talent is GIB (Good in Bed) and sometimes it’s VGIB (Very Good in Bed),” she said in jest.
Ai-Ai is presently part of the cast of GMA Network’s romantic comedy-drama “Owe My Love,” top-billed by Lovie Poe and Benjamin Alves.
Ai-Ai has been in the business for the longest time and the sustainability she attributes to the kind of professionalism she gives to her craft. She handles stardom by keeping her feet on the ground.
“Joining a beauty pageant is also a good vehicle for empowering women. I know that we have so much to express, we are talented, and we are as capable (as men) to perform complicated roles in our society.”
Former Bb. Pilipinas-Universe Nina Ricci Alagao’s most unforgettable moment was when she won the most prestigious local contest in 2000.
Joining a beauty pageant, she found out, was not as easy as she thought it was. It takes a lot of discipline, grace, intelligence, and inner strength to be able to make it. “It is also a good vehicle for empowering women,” shared Nina, who is also a TV personality, make-up artist, model, visual artist, mom, and wife, rolled into one. “I feel so strongly for women. I know that we have so much to express, we are talented, and we are as capable (as men) to perform complicated roles in our society.”
She exudes the epitome of a beauty queen – independent, intelligent, aside from being beautiful. That she wasn’t aware of. “I probably had it in me, but I didn’t see it right away because I was very boyish when I was young and my goal was directed towards another thing which is the arts,” she shared. “I remember when I was young, around six years old, there was this girl who was five years older than me, and she called me ‘Miss Universe’ for some reason. I just said, ‘Sana magdilang anghel siya.’ I had no idea why she called me that because I was thin, dark, and ugly then.”
It was her friends who convinced her to join the local pageant at that time. They were prodding her for four years and so she finally agreed.
Photo courtesy: Ruby Asoy personal file/@ninaalagao IG account
Among the beauty queens, she looks up to former Miss Universe 1969 Gloria Diaz because “she’s very sincere” and made a strong impact during the question-and-answer portion of that beauty contest.
Of course, she also maintains a beauty regimen. “I wash my face with soap and water after every event or engagement,” she shared. “Then I cleanse it with astringent and I put moisturizer to make it look fresh the next day even If I don’t have enough sleep that night.”
An artist at heart
A painter on the side, she uses mostly acrylic and oil; she also loves doing watercolor on paper. She has learned how to paint from her dad, Tomas, who is a frustrated artist. That’s why after finishing high school at the Philippine High School for the Arts in Mount Makiling (Laguna) she enrolled at the UP College of Fine Arts, where she majored in Visual Communications.
As an artist, she likes women as her subject. “I’m really fascinated with the female body – especially the curves they’re very sensual. And I’ve been trying to master the female anatomy.” Her favorite artists are impressionist Cesar Legaspi “because he makes things appear as close to the real thing as possible,”; and Anita Magsaysay-Ho “because she’s a woman and she’s very expressive.”
For a living, she has been working as a model for print and TV, a make-up artist, and a TV personality. Being a model has taught her how to be more confident. “You can easily face people without intimidation. You learn more about yourself in the sense that you know your best angle and what looks good on you.”
She wants to be remembered as the embodiment of a woman — talented, smart, confident, has a sense of humor and good disposition in life.
